I’ll Carry It
Stability is not built through control. It is built through structure.
A daily practice for fathers going through divorce, written by a father while he was in one.
Seven mornings. One decision each. Free.
Where are you right now?
Start where you actually are.
The first 30 days
Everything just changed.
Seven mornings, one decision each. The smallest structure that holds when nothing else does.
Month two to six
I keep reacting.
The full ninety day reset. Three minutes a day, in a book you can hold.
Year one and past it
Steady, but drifting.
One real moment, the behavior I chose, one thing you can use. Every Sunday.
The method
Carry. Check. Close.
Carry
Decide what is yours in the morning.
Check
Check whether you are reacting at midday.
Close
Close the day on whether you led.
Three minutes, three times a day. That is the framework. It is free, it is yours, and you can run it tomorrow morning without buying anything.
The journal
I’ll Carry It: A 90 Day Reset for Fathers
The ninety day version of the framework. Morning, midday, evening, a weekly reset, and milestone reflections at day 30, 60 and 90. I wrote it because I needed it and no one had built it.
- Pages224
- BindingSmyth sewn, lays flat
- CoverSoft touch, debossed
- StatusPrinted, in stock
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Who is writing this
I lead two companies. I am raising three children. I went through divorce without giving up structure, and the practice that held my life together became the thing I now hand to other fathers.
The newsletter
One Note Every Sunday
One real moment from my week. The behavior I chose. One thing you can use before Monday.