A Weekly Newsletter for Dads and Moms Who Are Done Reacting and Ready to Lead.
Divorce does not just change your schedule.
It changes your identity.
Overnights shift. Holidays shift. Authority shifts.
And if you are not careful, you start reacting instead of leading.
I’ll Carry It is a weekly note for divorced and separated dads and moms rebuilding stability, discipline, and self respect.
Not therapy.
Not rage.
Not victimhood.
Behavior.
Why This Exists
When my marriage ended, I did what most men do.
I tried to control what I could not control.
Texts. Schedules. Narratives. Perception.
None of it worked.
What did work was simpler.
Structure.
Regulation.
Consistency.
Ownership.
This newsletter is about the behaviors that quietly rebuild leverage in your life.
The habits that reduce chaos.
The discipline that restores credibility.
The actions your kids actually feel.
What You’ll Receive
Every week, I send two short, grounded notes built around real life.
- One moment from my week
- The behavior I chose instead of chaos
- Why it mattered
- One takeaway you can use immediately
No theory.
No motivational fluff.
Just behavior.
Who This Is For
This Is For You If:
- You are newly divorced or separated
- You feel like control is slipping
- You want to respond better, not react louder
- You care more about your children than your ego
This is about becoming steady when everything around you feels unstable.
Recent Newsletters
- Stability Is a Decision During Divorce
- Lessons of a Divorced Dad: The Strength of Restraint
- Lessons of a Divorced Dad: Why Structure Protects Kids During Divorce
- Lessons of a Divorced Dad: Not Reacting During Divorce
About Scott
I am a father of three navigating divorce while running a company and rebuilding my life in real time.
I created this note because I could not find practical guidance for dads in the middle of it.
Not theory.
Not therapy language.
Behavior.
If you are committed to showing up better, even when it is hard, you are in the right place.